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Would you rather, couples edition

A pottery class or a cooking class, a cabin weekend or a city hotel, a rescue dog or a summer of fostering kittens: behind these light questions, you learn how your partner pictures your life together. They work for couples on a third date and for couples who have shared a couch for years. Everything is sweet and playful, and nothing is dirty.

The guessing game

  • Guess first. For each question, one of you predicts out loud what the other will choose. Then the other taps their real answer.
  • Keep score. After ten questions, you will know who reads whom better. Swap roles and play again.
  • Talk it out. When your answers differ, each of you explains. That is usually where you learn something new.

42 would you rather questions

  1. Would you rather have a picnic in the park or have dinner on a rooftop?
  2. Would you rather take a pottery class together or take a cooking class together?
  3. Would you rather go on a road trip with no plan or go on a perfectly planned vacation?
  4. Would you rather share every dessert or share every playlist?
  5. Would you rather get a surprise lunch delivered or find a surprise note in your bag?
  6. Would you rather have matching pajamas or have matching mugs?
  7. Would you rather spend a weekend at a lake house or spend a weekend on a farm with baby animals?
  8. Would you rather stargaze on a blanket or watch the city lights from a hilltop?
  9. Would you rather go to a concert together or go to a comedy show together?
  10. Would you rather adopt a rescue dog or foster kittens for a summer?
  11. Would you rather have a weekly date night or have a monthly mini adventure?
  12. Would you rather have our love story turned into a movie or have it turned into a song?
  13. Would you rather live in a cozy cottage or live in a modern loft?
  14. Would you rather redo our first date or plan our tenth anniversary trip today?
  15. Would you rather do every chore together or split the chores and get more free time?
  16. Would you rather bake together or build furniture together?
  17. Would you rather send each other memes all day or save up stories to tell each other at dinner?
  18. Would you rather have a secret handshake or have a secret code word?
  19. Would you rather take a hot air balloon ride or take a gondola ride in Venice?
  20. Would you rather travel the world in a camper van or sail between islands on a small boat?
  21. Would you rather grow a garden together or build a huge bookshelf together?
  22. Would you rather throw me a surprise party or plan my birthday with me?
  23. Would you rather dance in the rain or dance at a wedding until the lights come on?
  24. Would you rather have a couple nickname everyone uses or have one only we know?
  25. Would you rather spend a whole day watching movies under a blanket or spend a whole day exploring a new town?
  26. Would you rather get matching bracelets or get matching keychains?
  27. Would you rather leave love notes on the bathroom mirror or leave love notes in lunch bags?
  28. Would you rather eat dessert first on every date or share one dessert with two spoons?
  29. Would you rather go to a theme park on a date or go to a museum on a date?
  30. Would you rather have a lazy Sunday or have an adventurous Saturday?
  31. Would you rather hold hands everywhere we go or hug every time we meet?
  32. Would you rather go to a drive-in movie or go to an outdoor concert?
  33. Would you rather remember every anniversary perfectly or be surprised every year?
  34. Would you rather have a home full of plants or have a home full of books?
  35. Would you rather cook a fancy dinner at home or eat our favorite takeout on the living room floor?
  36. Would you rather go on a double date or go on a date just the two of us?
  37. Would you rather write our story in a journal or make a scrapbook of our trips?
  38. Would you rather learn to rock climb together or learn to sail together?
  39. Would you rather get a good morning voice message or get a photo of your day every evening?
  40. Would you rather take a beach vacation or take a ski trip?
  41. Would you rather celebrate small wins with a kitchen dance party or celebrate small wins with a fancy dessert?
  42. Would you rather read the same book at the same time or watch the same show from two cities and text about it?

How it works

  1. Read the question

    Two options appear in two big boxes. Read them out loud: every question comes from this page’s list.

  2. Pick your side

    Everyone chooses. Tap the winning option and it is highlighted for the whole group to see.

  3. Get the next one

    Tap again or press Next question. The counter shows how far you are, with no repeats until the end of the list.

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When to play together

  • On a long drive or flight, when you have already talked about everything else.
  • Long distance, on a video call: each of you opens the page and reads the question to the other. It works over text too.
  • On an early date, the questions give you plenty to talk about without getting too personal too fast.
  • On your anniversary, write your answers down and play again next year. Some of them will change.

A few questions touch on future plans. If one does not fit where you are right now, just skip to the next.

Questions

Are these couples questions dirty?

No. They are sweet and light: dates, trips, habits and plans. They suit any couple, including brand-new ones.

How do you play would you rather as a couple?

One partner guesses what the other will pick, then the other answers. One point per correct guess, and switch roles every ten questions.

Can we play long distance?

Yes. On a video call or over text, each of you opens this page and reads the question to the other before comparing answers.

What if we disagree on a lot of answers?

That is normal, and often the best part. Different answers are a reason to ask questions, not a sign of a problem. Use them to learn something about your partner's tastes, then move on to the next one.

Are these would you rather questions free?

Yes. The page is free, funded by ads, and needs no account or app. It works in your browser.

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